chore: modernize CI and update Go toolchain

- Bump Go from 1.19 to 1.26 and update all dependencies
- Rewrite CI workflow with matrix strategy (Linux, macOS, Windows)
- Update GitHub Actions to current versions (checkout@v4, setup-go@v5)
- Update CodeQL actions from v1 to v3
- Fix cross-platform bug in mock/path.go (path.Join -> filepath.Join)
- Clean up dependabot config (weekly schedule, remove stale ignore)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

vendor/github.com/alecthomas/chroma/v2/.gitignore

@@ -23,3 +23,6 @@ _models/
 _examples/
 *.min.*
 build/
+
+cmd/chromad/static/chroma.wasm
+cmd/chromad/static/wasm_exec.js